Sunny1979

Ok guys , I found a new home for Tuffy, its 700 kms away from my place.  Hope his new owner will never hit him.

 

The new owner owns a lab, I plan to gift  tuffy's personal stuff  to the new owner, also would be sharing  his food habits, games etc. I want both of them to bond  together. 

 

 

 

Would it would be wise to keep tuffy hungry few hours before travel, and then new owner feeding him with hand first time? Would it create a bond that way?

 

Anything I am missing please let me know

Will keep u guys posted with updates. 

 

Tuffy Went for his first morning walk today. 

 

He was really Happy. He spent like 1 hour playing in grass and waited to come back home to poop :). This time I was not angry as before. At least he pooped in right place.

 

Tuffy has  Learnt Kiss command and he now rolls much better.

 

He is shedding his hair like crazy.

 

Poor guy is so scared of me that If I raise my voice he runs under the table.  Yes scary me!

 

 

i am in india, i am talking to families near me who can take good care of him, Its not his mistake, I am punishing myself for hitting him.

Sad news. I hit tuffy again, he peed on couch. I am so sad and sorry for what I did. I have decided to give him away as I promised myself that I will never hit him again. Sorry guys not sure If I should have told u this.

2 hours ago, Tassie said:

So here's another opportunity to think not just in terms of what you don't want, but in terms of what you would like to see Tuffy be doing instead.   This is where you could use your crate or your x-pen to help Tuffy be "correct" .. remember, make the right thing easy and the thing you  don't want more difficult.    So your meal times could be an opportunity for Tuffy to spend a little time in his crate - or his x pen - some confinement space in an area where he can still see you … with a nice tasty chew thing .. not sure what you could use .. but something like a frozen  chicken wing or a dog chew.     You will find after a few days, that as soon as he sees you all getting ready for your meal, he will start to take himself off to his "special place" to get his chew.     Think always of "can I get the pup to want to do what I want him to do" … think of how to build value in the pup's mind for that, rather than rewarding him  with attention for doing what you don't want..... yes, even though you think you're correcting him, in his mind, you're paying attention to him … guess who won..  

Again, if you can be consistent with this, your smart little man will learn in no time.

interesting. Chicken wings here I come....

2 hours ago, Tassie said:

Here a Link to a version of Susan Garrett's famous It's Yer Choice Game … which is kind of an expanded version of what @persephone is saying.    You can play it sitting in a chair to start with .. which is easier, as you can anchor your elbow to your knee to stop you jerking your hand away if the pup starts mugging the food.   It's important not to do this .. just to keep your fist closed, and enjoy watching whata the puppy does next.   Jerking your hand away will encourage the puppy to grab at you.

 

Funny thing happened with the link, So clicked on link and on top u get a screen shot to play the video, I am clicking that screen shot for last 1 hour trying to make it work . ( i was occupied with some other work) Just few minutes ago i realized its a screen shot :D

1 hour ago, persephone said:

I give the food on my fist one bit at a time ..pups don't get any food until they take their mouths off my skin  and sit .They mouth and wriggle ..but catch on very quickly

We also don't give him any food while jumping,  when he sees us eating he gets over excited and would jump on a hot cup of coffee or tea , since he has become taller he would jump on us and try to go right after food. Usually it caused spills on dinner table or sometimes even our clothes.  Most of the time we will  get angry with this behavior  he gets  a loud "No " then he will try to run and still have a go at food. Then I have to stand up while having dinner and calm him down.  ( I am thinking of keeping him in leash or crate him while lunch and dinner times)  I am confused if I do that he will never learn to behave?

 

Also I wanted to ask you, is it ok to give food to dogs while we our eating? Is this encouraging bad behavior?

3 hours ago, Tassie said:

@Sunny1979, it sounds as though you're making good progress with Tuffy, and that you're starting to really enjoy him.   Just remember, he is still a baby, becoming a toddler, so some things he will learn quickly, others not so quickly, and like a human toddler, he will sometimes forget things, or make not so good choices.

 

Learning behaviours that we want, is an ongoing process, rather than a tick off list.   So it's helpful to think of each behaviour as a work in preogress, that you will gradually be able to grow and improve.    I'm thinking particularly of the "Wait" cue.   (Notice that in modern dog training, we use "cue" - a word and or physical signal that is attached to a behaviour and prompts the dog to do it.  We tend not to use "command", because that suggests do this thing or else ,,,,.     It's a small point, but it does tend to change our way of looking at our training, and assessing how it's going.)

 

So for the Wait .. think about what the finished behaviour will look like, then break it down into very small segments, and gradually build it up.   So it might be "can you wait in that place/or in that position while I move away from you ...maybe one step and then return - maybe only moving say your right foot, and then back .. mark and reward success.  Then you would very gradually increase distance, or duration in tiny increments .. not both at once.  You'd also start in a low distraction area, and gradually add more distractions as the pup begins to understand what you're asking.   So you will be progressively increasing distance, duration/time, and distractions, as Tuffy has success.   The basic rule is not to make things more difficult till you're having 80% or better success at one level.  You can also "yo-yo" around with distance and time .. some shorter, some longer, but with the average gradually increasing.      The wait will also become clearer to Tuffy if you are clear and consistent in what you are expecting.  If you are returning to Tuffy to reward, you will mark and reward when you get back.  If you are going to want Tuffy to come to you, than you need to make that clear by using his release word to give him permission to break the wait.    I use the same release word I use for permission to go out a door, get out of the car, etc.

 

The biting clothes thing will eventually go away as he gets older .. again, you just need to be consistent in the interrupt/replace with a toy … every time.    I think it took about 3 wees of that to get rid of trackpant tugging with my boy when he was a pup.

 

And as for chewing things left lying within the puppy's reach … ummm…. I eventually learnt to pick things up and put them out of reach. … consistently.

 

Thanx I will try this.  and let you know how it goes.

Hey guys,

 

A special Thanx to  Persephone, Tassie,  tdierikx, Loving my Oldies for your ongoing support and willingness to help.

 

Last week update on tuffy

 

Potty Training- No potty inside house for last 1 week,   3 times he pee inside house in last week  5 times he peed in my balcony.    Every time he pee in correct place he gets a reward.

 

Biting and Chewing- He only bites me while playing and then goes with head down after I go OUCH, I also move out  when he plays very aggressively.  so i got bitten 3 times in last week with 1 major blood and I myself got vaccinated for tetanus and rabies.

 

Chewing is a major problem, we got him many toys but seems he only wants slippers and furniture and even our walls. He is biting corners of walls. We cant keep him in crate all day. 

 

Vaacination

 

3rd Vaccination done for tuffy after 4th is due on 9th feb -  he can go out on walks.. Yay I am more excited then tuffy.  

 

 

Training

 

Tuffy has now learnt the following commands

 

SIT -

UP - Works only with food

COME

LAY DOWN

ROLL- AFTER LAYING DOWN - Only works with food in hand

Spin- While standing

Shake hand - Paw

High Five

Easy- Go easy taking food from my hand

GO TO BED - Bedtime

Aggressive No- When he is misbehaving

Behave- While running on couch, he will lay down

1 2 3 GO - Runs after a Ball or any other object and fetch it back

 

 

 

He has trouble understanding the following commands

 

Wait- He cant understand wait,  He will follow me as soon as I stand and move.

Leave IT - I use a treat and drop it on floor- but this only works for him when I have a treat. He wont leave if I don't have a treat

Chewing our clothes while walking - We will stay PUT  and offer him toy or treat then only he will leave us. If no treat he wont leave biting clothes while walking.

He jumps on us while we are eating food and tries to grab him-  I am currently searching articles on internet on how to train him not to grab food from our hands.

 

 

Some pics of Tuffy strange way of sleeping-

 

He will jump on couch when I am watching TV with me and lie down on his back and sleep. Posting a small video for you guys. Sorry for exposing tuffy's privates.  My mum got offended by this video  hope you guys are cool with it.

 

Tuffy Sleeping  On His back Video - 

https://photos.app.goo.gl/nnnm2SV2UAumYxBz9

 

Tuffy eating pic

https://photos.app.goo.gl/bhXrFJemYHhLGpyc6

 

Many of the video's worked great for tuffy, some did not but anyway  we are both learning  by trial and error.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Loving my Oldies what do u suggest?  How do I tell him to stop barking and Jumping.  Can u suggest how to kill his over excitement?  

 

After eating dinner, he will usually pick his favorite soft toy a FISH and drop it on my feet.  He expects me to play with it. I would only play if he doesn't jump on me. Then he would run around and growl very aggressively. 

 

What I have tried so far:

I am giving treats when he sits down and doesn't jump on bed. 

I have followed all videos shared by persephone, seems he will only obey me till i have food in my hand. After food is finished he is like " Your not my parent anymore"

Persephone

 

I would like to thank you for sharing Donna Hill Video. I tried to do the same with Mr. Tuffy.  He bit me once while doing it, however I see a lot of Improvement in tuffy.  After 15-20 attempts he has started to understand the game. So he will put his head down for treat.

 

I have posted videos of Tuffy Jumping on bed. This is a similar situation recorded today on phone. Usually he grab blanket and then barks, today i was ready and moved blanket out of his reach. I was working on laptop and he was playing with Kong toy filled with peanut butter  and making loud growling noise.   Is this  play or aggression? 

 

So far I have been putting a treat on floor. But seems he doesn't want to stop jumping.

 

 

Tassie

 

Yes we are investing in a crate today evening, even if it costs Tuffy's Freedom. We cant sleep in night fearing that he might bite us . Yes we allowed free run but paying a huge price when we try to restrict his access now. He is whining and barking when blocked outside.

 

Thanx for suggesting x pen, I will read on internet about it. We are going to buy crate and clicker today itself.

 

 

 

 

7 hours ago, persephone said:

aggression ? or play ? 

I will share the video

 

 Tuffy Jumping on bed - https://photos.app.goo.gl/B9dhFbfhiwNdjKu96

 

Tuffy Bit me-  https://photos.app.goo.gl/bhJpq4xxPb39UG7z8  

 

Please also see if Tuffy is skinny? He is not roly poly like other puppy videos on internet. 

 

Ok I would like to discuss another possible training opportunity.

 

Tuffy Sleeps in same room as us. He will usually come running to me on bed and jump his front legs. So his half body is on floor and 2 legs up on bed. He will start biting the blanket very hard and wont stop. If I move the blanket away he will bark very aggressively and if he can get his mouth near my hand or feet he will try to bite with aggression. Any idea how to stop this behavior?

On 1/5/2019 at 12:56 PM, persephone said:

   sure that's not "son-of-a- bitch"  ??

Anyway . 

keep sessions short and fun!!  2 minutes , even!! ALWAYS , ALWAYS end on a HIGH  Then a memory is in his little brain  of happy ..just happy

I enjoy watching these little videos ... some of it is what I do with our puppies ... as I'm useless using a clicker , , and my timing is always a bit 'slow '  ;) 

With baby pups ..the method shown in video  takes a little patience and  concentration ..but ...watch closely !! NO voice commands at first !! Cos pups don't know Our Speech   
Pups ARE smart ..and they very quickly learn that doing xyz  gets them  something   
Pups we have now  learned in just a few minutes  that food bowls would stay empty  unless they had bums on the ground for more than 2 seconds ..I did NOT use my voice ..and THEY  made the decision 
The gate on their pen  will only open  if bums are on the ground ..AND I have used my voice  to quietly praise them without them getting up

When a puppy makes a decision which  gives them a reward ( or a bad experience )  this is  remembered . A couple of practices ..and praise ..ALWAYS calm and quiet  from an owner ..and  that behaviour will stick!!

You have children ? Can they 'push your buttons' to get a reaction? Do they sit , gaaaze at you with HUGE eyes /help you with chores, unasked,   to encourage you to give them praise ? They've done what puppies do

VIDEO to watch   CLICK HERE

Video  to watch      CLICK HERE

And one other ...CLICK HERE  self control

Only If every dog owner/lover could see these videos before getting a puppy.

 

I wish I would have done extra research work before getting a puppy. Seems like tuffy would be my experimental kid.   We gave him free access to house loads of love, this has spoiled him so much.  Today when we restricted his access poor guy kept barking,  hate taking freedom from him still. 

Also I was reading on internet, his privates should fall down at 2 months. Tuffy has nothing Swinging down under. Shall I wait more or take him to vet?

Ok guys, I am teaching tuffy not to grab food from hand. Its working the opposite way for him.

 

He used to love banana, now he wont eat it.

 

What I tried. I took banana and he would grab it from my hand by jumping on it. So I would close my hand and say No or wait.  I tried that for 2 min in last 4-5 days.

 

Now he is growling at the banana.  He goes Grrr... I dont want it.

 

Also whenever we drop anything on the floor he will run fast and picks in his mouth and try to swallow it, any idea how to train on that?

 

Also if he swallowed something is it recommend to forcefully take out from his mouth? Would he bite me? He goes very aggrresive if we try to pull out something from his mouth.

 

 

Tuffy 2nd vaccination completed today, he is due for deworming on12th.

 

Tuffy cant seem to remember where to pee and potty correctly on pads, he has started to pee on tiles again.? Whats am i doing wrong?

persephone - T we had this amazing 2 min short  training session multiple times and he seem to love short sessions rather then boring long ones.  So thanx alot. 

 

tdierikx - Thanx for that great video. I took tuffy to a 11 year old lab today he is very friendly with puppies and vaccinated,  They bonded very well and spoke in some doggy language. I wished I could have clicked a video. The Oldie took tuffy  by his chain for a ride  in park. A very small one but very productive.

 

 

 

21 hours ago, persephone said:

keep sessions short and fun!!  2 minutes , even!! ALWAYS , ALWAYS end on a HIGH  Then a memory is in his little brain  of happy ..just happy

Yes this would be good, I think I am taking this too seriously, I need to make it fun for Tuf

21 hours ago, persephone said:

I enjoy watching these little videos ... some of it is what I do with our puppies ... as I'm useless using a clicker , , and my timing is always a bit 'slow '  ;) 

 I tried to click a video for you guys yesterday, where tuffy would bring his bowl when hungry and drop on Kitchen floor, Can u guys believe it took me 15 attempts begging to do this on camera. He did NOT do it. Finally I gave up and went to kitchen  to prepare his meal. 

21 hours ago, persephone said:

You have children ?

I have a little 6 yeard old visiting out house very often  as he mother is working full time, she is my sis daughter.  She gets so excited when she sees tuffy

 and they make a deadly combo together. She would be like jumping tuffy tuffy tuffy and clapping hands, now tuffy gets excited and tries to bite her legs and then the entire things get out of control, both of them cant understand a word that I say.

 

PS: ty for the videos

39 minutes ago, Tassie said:

@Sunny1979, you and Tuffy are doing a good job of learning together.    There are some great resources out there on relationship based and reward based training.  Have a look on YouTube for Kikopup and Donna Hill, just as a start.    Remember that you are actually training Tuffy all the time, .. or he's training you.   So it's really important to be mindful, as you are being.  And if you reach the end of your patience, or Tuffy is showing you he's either too excited or too tired to learn, then a little timeout in his crate or x pen is a great idea.

I using a toy or a substitute chew toy to redirect the chewing activity you don't want, the idea is to teach him that it's OK to chew and play with the substitute you're offering .. toy, cardboard roll or whatever, so you use the little interrupt noise, then tease him a bit with the toy to get him interested and let him play with that.  It can take quite a lot of repetitions .. took 3 weeks to persuade my Border Collie pup when he was young that pants tugging was not OK, but playing tug with other things or chewing them was..

 

In terms of general obedience type training, the general rule is to teach the behaviour first .. as you're doing with having him follow your food lure, mark and reward what you like, and only when the pup is doing the behaviour pretty well, do you start to put a word on it.    (Thinks if someone gave you an order in a language you did not understand, and expected you to obey it.   This is why modern dog training tends to use the word "cue" rather than "command"  .. words like sit are cues to prompt the dog to give you a behaviour he already knows.

 

As far as the grooming goes, it can be really helpful to use something like a frozen food puzzle toy, or even a mug with something like peanut butter smeared around the inside of  it and then frozen.   This occupies the pup, and leaves you with hands free for the grooming.    If you are consistent with using this one particular thing, I would bet Tuffy will be begging you to groom him.

 

Thanx I will watch at noon,  I tried kong style toys with little peanut butter while grooming him, yes he let me groom him without biting the hand or comb. I will give a try to frozen. 

 

PS: I totally agree with you, this is what I had to learn myself, Dogs don't understand what is SIT and we have to explain the commands before without voice. No dog training video tells this on internet. 

 

Its like telling him to OBEY and he goes like searching ....searching ....searching..... Command NOT Found.

 

 

Not the kind of response I expected, but seems like you all are biased.  I expected something like you "SHOULD NOT DO THAT "  I mean what kind of man would hit a puppy? Ok but  I can live with your reply,  I feel less guilty now and tuffy also playing and licking me today, seems he has forgotten. 

 

Loving my Oldies Yes you are right  yesterday he draw the first blood while playing he bit me really hard but I was Like OOOOOOOOUCCHHHHH and then something really funny came out of my mouth and everyone laughed but it was insulting to tuffy I said  " Kutta  Ke bache:" Which means you  "son of a dog" in english and I raised my voice but did not hit him, so that was improvement, but I had to crate him after that. I feel sorry for little fellow, he really likes being free but me NOT specially when he is in Biting mode.

 

tdierikx  I tried something different. So I was training him to SIT and this really worked.   I gave him a spoonful of food asked him to SIT, he obeyed and then I told him to STAY, he obeyed and then I tell him to SHAKE HAND which he did after that I said COME  ( to eat his food). This really worked for TUFFY. So it calms him down doing three steps.  His tail is wagging at 100 miles per hour though.

 

Also what I noticed was tuffy is smart to learn stay and come himself without explaining him.   I did work on 10 minutes morning and evening with peanut butter as treat  to teach him Hand shake.Also he is trained to pick up his bowl every time he wants to eat and drops in my hand.  I will post the entire video for you guys.

 

 

"Time-outs can be effective when he's in naughty chewing legs/hands mode... if he won't stop when you ask him to, then pick him up and pop him in his crate and ignore him for 10 minutes... repeat as often as necessary so he gets the idea that you don't like the sort of "play" he's been engaging in."

 

yes thank you I am trying this now, will let u know if this works and teach him some doggy manners.

 

"When I used to raise puppies for rescue, my older dogs used to help with discipline of naughty behaviour... one older dog would take so much, then turn around suddenly and literally flatten the naughty pup with a huge growl. This is how other dogs teach puppies manners and it looks/sounds like they really want to hurt the puppy, but usually it has only given puppy a really big fright - enough so that puppy learns pretty quickly that what they did just before being flattened just won't be tolerated at all. My "UHH" is a modification of the older dog's tone when correcting puppies, and it is rarely accompanied with physical action, except for removing puppy to a time-out if they persist in their naughty behaviour."

 

I might be asking to much but can I get a video of this? I will try searching on you tube if i can find, this sounds very interestig.

 

I actually really like UHH OHH,  Even I like it not sure about tuffy. 

 

PANDI-GIRL -  He he yes puppies are great way to socialize, not just where we live but even on Internet.  **Chukles**

Ok I did a bad thing, I ended up hitting tuffy while training and I feel really bad about it.  I am feeling guilty,

 

Though it was a slight tap on his face but I still feel he is a baby and i should not have  done it,  he made a cry and went under my arm and slept. I stopped training him for now as I myself did not know why did i do this.

 

What should be my punishment? A slight tap for a tap would not make tuffy happy, so how do i remove my guilt?

Ok tried, as reqquested earlier to break down his meal. so  if I spread across floor he makes entire floor messy and if I give him a spoonful he thinks i am taking his food. He doesn't bark or bite  but tries to dominate the bowl. After finishing his food he would lick my hand. So I am assuming we are friendly with each other when it comes to food.

 

TRAINING UPDATE

 

I am keeping a record of my Do's and Don't while training puppy. Please feel free to share your inputs or feedback.

I have seen somewhere on internet that max training time should be 5-10 min

I started training yesterday with help of food, at first he was not interested and will go behind me and smell my  BUTTOCK.  Initially he was very frustrated and   was not able to understand why i am asking him to SIT? 

 

So I kept asking him to SIT and he kept jumping on me to grab the food, however  I was not there to give up so easily. I initially started by saying SIT but Tuffy had no idea what is SIT. I guess.

 

Watched a video on you tube on how to use hand movement  to make him SIT. Walla it worked! When i said sit and moved food with my hand towards him. First he picked his neck up and then sat down.  ( So my first learning was voice commands needs to be explained to a puppy).

He has already started understanding SIT and when I say SIT 6/10 times he will SIT and look for my hand.

 

BITING AND CHEWING UPDATE

After success of SIT command. This made me feel confident and bossy, now I felt like ruler of 7 worlds and excited like hell. I was like hell ya I can train you but later that day  In evening when tuffy came for play after his meal, he starting chewing  on me and furniture and I was like I can fix this. So as usual I came across this article where it was explained to shh the dog or Tap his nose or Say No in assertive way this would help.

 

 But this does not work for tuffy. He actually became more aggressive. I tried to raise my voice  but not he did not listen, poor fellow slept without understanding why I tapped his nose or raised my voice  So I started reading again and came across another article how to handle biting and chewing.

 

So now next morning I was ready with my advanced weapon system  His favorite soft toy and treats!  I knew he would come running at me after completing his morning breakfast. It worked initially, he started playing with toy, after good 2 min he started chewing  me again and then when I said sit he did not let it go then I used treat. I had better results. He looked at me SAT DOWN took the food from my had  enjoyed it and few seconds later it was my leg again.  I am not sure if he undertood that I am treating him for not chewing my leg. I think he understood he will get food when he chews my leg and SIT. So he is biting my leg and then look up at me to treat him. WTF...

 

He is also stubborn he kept coming back till I was out of treats. Then it was my socks and my legs again. 

 

So for next time, I have a plan for peanut butter, lets see how he reacts to that. He completely dislikes me combing his hair and dry bath. Will try that and let u know how he reacts.

 

POTTY  TRAINING Update:

 

He has not potty inside house for last 3 days now, he uses potty pads most of the times, but poor guy is a bad shooter, he goes outside and tries to do it on pad some how he misses the aim or the angel of drop is incorrect so it will land half on pad and half on floor

 

I don't understand why he will pee on potty pads sometimes only, rest of the times it the floor or crate. You guys can help me with this maybe.

 

 

 

 

 

9 minutes ago, tdierikx said:

@Sunny1979.... sounds like Tuffy is doing really well in your care... keep up the great work, OK?

 

Looks like the vet on 2nd Jan gave him a 7 in 1 vaccination - which covers all the nasties needed plus a few types of Leptosorosis (and possibly coronavirus - which has similar sytmptoms to Parvo).  Ordinarily, I wouldn't give a 7 in 1 to a pup under 10-12 weeks, but Tuffy has handled it just fine by the sound of things... sweet! Just to note... if you have another Parvo test now, he WILL show positive for Parvo, as the vaccine has a modified (not deadly) version of Parvo in it. This does NOT mean he actually has Parvo, just that his body is producing antibodies to protect him from it (which is GOOD).

 

I would say that Tuffy probably just felt a little bit overwhelmed by leaving his Mum and littermates, having a change in diet and routine, and most likely a lot of undivided attention from his new loving family... not that it is bad for him, but can sometimes overstimulate little ones and they can feel unwell for a few days.

 

Also, he eats very fast because he most likely had to share dinners with many other pups for a while, and he learned to gobble up as much as he could so he didn't miss out. You could try slowing him down by maybe putting very small amounts of food spaced a distance apart so he has time to swallow each mouthful before gobbling down the next one... over time he will learn that he doesn't have to share, and should eat a bit slower. Eating too fast can make their tummies upset too... and might have been why he vomited that day, and then associated eating dinner with feeling unwell for a couple of days. Eventually they get hungry enough to chance eating properly, and never look back... *grin*

 

I agree with everyone else here who is advising you to not take Tuffy out in public places until after his 3rd vaccination has had time to kick in (about 5 days after the actual vaccination)... you are doing everything else just right to ensure he has a long and healthy life, so a little bit more patience before you share him with the rest of the world will just be the icing on the cake, OK?

 

What a smart little man bringing his bowl to you when he wants food! He is obviously learning and growing up smart... maybe you could try teaching him basic obedience at home while you wait for when he can go outside safely. Things like sit, stay, drop, walking nicely on the lead, are good to start with... and who knows, you might find a few other cool tricks for him to learn as well...

 

Keep up the great work... Tuffy is doing awesomely well with you so far!

 

T.

 

Thanx what a wonderful way you have suggested to slow him down with his eating. I will try that and let you know. Cheers!

I will start giving him basic training and commands soon, most likely from tomorrow if he stays this way. What impresses me is he already understands many things without saying but is very moody and will only do when he feels like. I think he knows what i want from him but he is playing some mind games with me.

 

For example he knows i want him to Go potty on pad, so if left alone he will only potty on pad, but he doesn't pee on pad all the  times. So when accident happens I take him to potty pad WHen I piick him up and take him to potty pad and give command to pee he will play with me instead of pee. he will not pee for 1 hour and  me will go bonkers. If I leave him alone  he might go to pee on potty pad like a 70% chance.

 

When i try to praise him on potty pad he takes it other way and tries to bite/play with my hand