thank you for the feed back Diva and Thistle, I will go down the path of de sexing the boys, I think I put to much of my own emotion into that side of things and should of done it sooner. both boys have their own seperate crates, they are pushed together and are in our bedroom at night. I will slide the crates apart tonight and see how they wake up in the morning.   I will also try to find a professional to come to the house and help with the boys to learn to get back together again. d