gusmum

So sad to for your loss Rozzie. Mandrake came to you at the right time. Enjoy your angel wings Mandrake.

My deepest sympathies. What a beautiful connection. May they both rest in peace and have many timeless days drinking and snoring away together.

What a brave Big Little Bean! Such courage and valour! RIP Bean girl. You were so loved and will be so missed. xx

Day #5 and it's still and quiet. Went to get the morning paper and found myself looking behind me to see if he was at my feet or that I haven't locked him out. The pain is not as intense but the tears are ready to burst at any provocation. I've started a journal especially for him, and am writing down all my love and grief for him. It's helping me so much. It's HIS book and has added a new dimension to our connection what was in this world, and to him now in the next. Love and hugs and thank you again for your sympathies. So comforting...

My heart hurts with you Loraine, I am speechless with sadness at your loss as well as mine. May they both play happily in the company of all the angel dogs and animals across the bridge. Lots of hugs to you.x

Thank you for your sympathies. Day 1 and the first night without him at my feet was odd. Went out for dinner last night to get out of the house for a while. Was fine up until one moment when I felt faint and anxious and realised it was a panic attack. The only way I can describe how I feel right now is a sense of homesickness - he completed me. I guess this is grieving. Thank you for your beautiful wishes, they are unbelievably comforting.

My beautiful gentle Gus got his wings at 12.34pm today. He was 16years 8months and gave me so many more years of love, devotion, joy and pleasure than I deserve. My heart is breaking and the house is quiet without his presence. His things are all around and his hairs will forever be on my clothes to remember him by. Flowers and a candle are lit to show him the light. But he is finally free from pain and chasing rabbits and butterflies in the company of angels and gods. He chose me to trust with his life and he gave me the honour of caring for him to his last breath. I am numb from missing him. RIP my boo.

Thank you Pretty Miss Emma for your beautiful words. I know it must've been hard for you to express them - although cathartic is a way. Gus has been with me through so much of life's ups and downs and I just want to do the right thing by him. It's hard when everyone has such strong views on whether to euthanase or not and the responsibility of a beautiful creature's life in your hands. I just don't want to take his before his time. Yes, my vets have been amazingly supportive and they've told me to give him whatever he wants - which he's already getting anyway. And you're right, I've been told they will let you know so I'll remain vigilant for his sign. I just hate seeing him so skinny although he's eating fine, and staggering around after me like a stubborn mule.Right now I'm too worried about Gus to think about how I'll cope when the inevitable time comes. But I know I have to and will. You're lucky you have Kenzie with you to cuddle at night and make the sorrow a little sweeter. Bless.

Hello all, I really need to gleen from all your wisdom and experiences. What did you do when the time came to say goodbye? Did you plan ahead? Was is a sudden decision? What signs did you look for that told you it was time? Did you take time off work? How did you cope? My Gus is 16+ and every day is a bonus for us. I love him with all my heart but I'm looking for the sign from him. He's such a trooper, still eats, loves his chicken necks, follows me around when he can, uses the doggy door and just makes it outside when he needs to go. But he's also tripping and stumbling, pacing up and down at all hours of the night, can't really see or hear us, and is losing weight. He just tripped a little while ago and poo'd. Probably out of shock and trying to get himself up. I got him up and put him to bed and he's snoring now, but I'm worried about how he'll handle the summer, and don't feel the conviction to play god if he's still fighting to be around. I don't know whether to set a date, or do I just call the vet to get out here in 24hrs or what? Sorry this is so long winded but it's been so many sleepless nights watching over him and making sure he's ok. The vet said the time comes when he's disconnected, bedridden or incontinent. I don't want to put him down because it's inconveniencing my lifestyle or lack of sleep, I want to do the right thing by him. Thanks so much everyone.

Hello all, what do you do to keep your pets cool in this heat? Any new ideas/tips would be brilliant. Thanks.

Poor poor thing. It's horrible to see them go through all this. My heart goes out to you and your lovely girl. Hope you get to the bottom of this soon. x

Hello again, just letting you know how we went last night with Gus' vestibular condition. He slept all night. I was half expecting a restless night, but must have been too groggy and woozy. Hand fed him little slices of veal - rejected the boiled chicken. Slept lots, but all in all starting to move around a bit more and wanting to go back to routine but realising he can't. His head is tilting to the right and he tends to lean that way, poor thing, but overall he is far better than he was yesterday. I now more relaxed and feel I understand what I'm dealing with after reading your information and support, and I can't thank you all enough. xx

Look at your boys! I've just exploded.

Thanks FHRP. I just realised he's lost so much weight since that shot. At the weigh-in this morning he was only 27k. He's fast asleep, smack-bang in the middle of the bed so I'll be doing an "ease in where you can" trick to try and not bother him! Ish, I've just put in my order at Vet & Pet plus some Sasha's Blend for good measure. Thanks for the tip.

Ish,thank you so much for those links. Wow, what a brilliant community this is. The warmth and support is amazing. I'm grateful for all those stories and experiences shared, and the time frame for recovery is good to know too. The knots in my shoulders are slowly relaxing.