Sallyy Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 Hi all, We have a 10 month old Male, recently desxed Staffy & are thinking of adopting a 11 month old Female, non-desexed Staffy (part Boxer) she needs to find a new home We thought it would be a good idea as our boy seems to be getting very bored, lonely ect as we unfortunately have to work & loves the company of other dogs.. He is a very friendly boy, loves everyone & all dogs – he can’t get enough of his four legged friends. We have had the two together in our yard for a day & everything seemed to be fine, they seem like a great combo – very equal energy levels although she is a little more feisty then our boy. We were at the RSPCA Million Paws Walk having a chat to the RSPCA behaviour specialist & we mentioned adopting the Female Staffy, he said it was a bad idea & we would be better to wait until he is atleast 3 to introduce another dog.. & to make sure we get a dog that is smaller then him (Pug, Cavalier) or a dog that is bigger then him (Labrador, Border Collie) He said to get a dog with a different temperament as our boy. I was wanting to get some other opinions on this as now we are considering not adopting the Female Staffy X He didn’t seem to have any real reason not to go ahead & see how it works out but was very adamant it was a bad move... Ideas, opinions? Thanks in advance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandra777 Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 I would ignore the SPCA person and find out if this specific bitch suits you and your family temperament wise, then arrange a neutral meet with your dog and guage how they get on. Sometimes dogs just hate each other on first sight and there's often nothing you can do to change that idea. I have owned Staffords for over 30 years and have never found them to be particularly great with other breeds because they have a unique play style all their own - too much for most other breeds! Smaller dogs they can hurt unintentionally with their rough play, larger dogs they often view as a challenge You've definitely got the right idea about getting a bitch rather than another dog though. The age thing could be a small issue, but dog and bitch together are almost always fine. Don't be surprised when the bitch ends up being the boss though! Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dogsrawesome Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 Hi all, We have a 10 month old Male, recently desxed Staffy & are thinking of adopting a 11 month old Female, non-desexed Staffy (part Boxer) she needs to find a new home We thought it would be a good idea as our boy seems to be getting very bored, lonely ect as we unfortunately have to work & loves the company of other dogs.. He is a very friendly boy, loves everyone & all dogs – he can’t get enough of his four legged friends. We have had the two together in our yard for a day & everything seemed to be fine, they seem like a great combo – very equal energy levels although she is a little more feisty then our boy. We were at the RSPCA Million Paws Walk having a chat to the RSPCA behaviour specialist & we mentioned adopting the Female Staffy, he said it was a bad idea & we would be better to wait until he is atleast 3 to introduce another dog.. & to make sure we get a dog that is smaller then him (Pug, Cavalier) or a dog that is bigger then him (Labrador, Border Collie) He said to get a dog with a different temperament as our boy. I was wanting to get some other opinions on this as now we are considering not adopting the Female Staffy X He didn’t seem to have any real reason not to go ahead & see how it works out but was very adamant it was a bad move... Ideas, opinions? Thanks in advance Why would you get a smaller dog, especially with a stafford? , that doesnt make sense to me lol they rough play. I think its a good idea what you are doing, if she fits in well with your situation then get her. To me that what he said doesnt make sense Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megan_ Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 most staffies would be WAAAAY too much for a pug or a cav. They like to play very rough and need to be with dogs that like to play rough too. That said, before getting a second dog, I think it is worth thinking about whether your boy is going to teach the newby good or bad habits (ie you want your dog to be well trained before introducing another, otherwise you'll have two ratbags to deal with). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sallyy Posted May 16, 2011 Author Share Posted May 16, 2011 Thank you for your fast replies, No it didnt seem to make sence to me either.. I said to the man "we have had them together for a day & also have had a meet up in a park & they love playing with eachother, we have seen them eat & drink together & all seems fine" He really didnt seem to have an answer but did say he had 13 years experience & has seen people do the same thing as us thinking it is the right thing to do but it doesnt work out... I think it is more on the individual dogs rather then a set rule. Glad I am not the only one who is a little unclear of his statement Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juice Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 (edited) If they already get on fine, i don't see what the problem is, except to be ready when she decides to be boss, that he doesn't mind. Staffy's play rough, i have a BT, and finding a friend is hard as they do like to play very rough, suggesting a pug or cav is the most stupid idea i have heard I would be inclined to give it a go, they sound well matched. just be careful feeding close toghter till you know her better. Edited May 16, 2011 by juice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sallyy Posted May 16, 2011 Author Share Posted May 16, 2011 yes that is a good point, he does have his bad habbits & so does she, although we dont know the full extent of her bad habits.. His are really only chewing & pulling when we go for walks.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sallyy Posted May 16, 2011 Author Share Posted May 16, 2011 She already is showing signs of wanting to be boss & he luckily is extreemly submissive I think giving them a week together as a sort-of "trial" is going to be out next step Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megan_ Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 (edited) I noticed in your reply you said that they've eaten together. Please don't do this . Food is a major cause of fights in dogs and if two staffy x's have a fight it will be brutal - they are very strong dogs with very high pain thresholds. If you're lucky you'll get off with a very large vet bill... Re: his pulling, in my view this means that, if you get the other dog, you'll need to walk them seperately until they're both trained to walk nicely. Otherwise it is just a nightmare. This isn't a bad thing as it is important for dogs to get used to spending time apart without fretting etc. It does eat up your time though. Also bear in mind that he's still young and hasn't matured - he might be submissive now but might not be in the future. That said, girls are usually the boss in the dog world. Edited May 16, 2011 by megan_ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
persephone Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 I agree with the thinking that the female will end up 'boss' . also with NOT feeding them within sight of each other. Feed them in separate rooms, or yards - and don't leave bowls down - that way there is nothing to fight for/over ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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