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  1. 51 minutes ago, Kazm said:

     Im really looking for something in the way of a natural remedy. We arent keen on using any drugs that may make her drowsy etc. I just want her calm. And quiet.

    I don't notice any change in terms of drowsiness or "not quite there" with my dogs when I give them Trazadone, but I understand you wish to find something natural.  The problem with those sorts of agents is that they take a long time to have any effect.  

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  2. @Kazm, just over a year ago, I adopted two Pekingese sisters who were from a puppy farm.  They are both totally gorgeous and very very funny.  They are not generally nervous except one of them predicts storms hours away and the other is nervous about going to the grooming.  I have Trazadone on hand for these sorts of situations.  Just a tiny bit of a pill given two hours before the event (eg before you have to go out) and it works for several hours. 

     

    Of course, you can also go out and get Molly a couple of permanent siblings - LOL.  

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  3. 1 hour ago, Kazm said:

    Such a sad story. There are certainly some terrible people in this world. I hope they find the little dog and return her to her proper home.

    No wonder the rates of depression are skyrocketing.  

     

    Many years ago, I attended a lunch hosted by my boss which was attended by several of his friends and business colleagues.  Afterwards, he asked me if I had enjoyed myself.  I mentioned one of the men (who my boss had been friends with for decades) and I said, 'He would sell his grandmother for a dollar."  My boss replied, "50 cents."  

     

    I realised from working with him and that company ("big end of town") that morals never ever played a part in how business was done.  You could hate someone but if they had a deal ..... let's explore it.   

     

    It is evident in every aspect of life where so many people have no sense of right or wrong.  All that matters is them and what they want at any particular time.  It is very depressing.  You only have to read a little bit of social media to see the ugliness that is part and parcel of humankind.   

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  4. There used to be a condition in some contracts:  all care, no responsibility.  

    Today the default condition in regards to just about every aspect of life is: no care and bugger-all if anything goes wrong.  
     

    What the hell will the world be like in a decade or two?  Even worse.  
     

    Having been bitten quite a few times over the years, I can guarantee that those bites are very very painful.  

     

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  5. 48 minutes ago, Amazetl said:

    Why did they change the German Shepherd in the first place

     

    A few years ago, a GS who could hardly walk his back was so sloped and his elbows were practically on the ground, won BIS (or similar) at Crufts.  An other year, a Pekinese who had had soft palate operations and could hardly breathe also won.  

     

    You ask why.  Examine the judges, their contacts with breeders, etc etc.  There's an old adage, "Follow the money."

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  6. 12 hours ago, Tempus Fugit said:

    So is the road toll, so is domestic violence, so are the human on human attacks that occur with monotonous regularity. I don't put much store in Sky News.

    So what you are saying is that because anything can happen leading to tragedy, ho hum, no one needs to bear responsibility?

     

    I find your comments quite indefensible.   

  7. 16 minutes ago, Amazetl said:

    ..... or more likely he just didn’t think at all as it was only going

    He DID think.  He put the dogs in another person's yard to keep them hidden.  He knew he was doing something illegal.  He knew he was in the wrong.  

     

    He should have been given a custodial sentence and refused permission to ever own anotherdog.  

     

    I'm so angry with these judges and magistrates who give piss-weak sentences for people who have caused shocking harm, including death, and ruined the lives of those still living.   

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  8. 5 hours ago, PeiLuvR said:

    Sweet little Strawberry. I hope she continues to come out of her shell and flourish with gentle encouragement. 

    I've noticed in the past couple of days that she is spending a lot more time downstairs which seems to me to be an avoidance tactic.  She is almost always downstairs when I get up in the morning.  So I go out on the deck and call her.  If I notice she is just pottering around, I don't make a noise, just so she can enjoy herself.  Once she realises I am up, she does come upstairs.  And she does know her name.  A great bonus is that, providing she has access to the outside, she is housetrained.  

     

    She still runs when I walk towards her which is disappointing (not for me, but I feel for her that she is still scared), but there are definitely small signs of improvement.   

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  9. Well, two massive breakthroughs today.  The first one came when I was getting their breakfasts and, as usual, I gave Strawbs her tablet in a little bit of mince.  She usually takes a bit of convincing, but she took it straight away and didn't move as she ate it.  I decided to push the boundaries and started giving her scratches around her ears, gradually moved down her body and, throwing caution to the winds, and picked her up.  She was terrified of course, but she didn't struggle or try to bite.  So thrilling.  

     

    Second one came just a little while ago.  I'd spent ages in the garden and after coming upstairs when into the study and spent a bit on time on the computer.  I was desperate for a cup of tea, so eventually turned around to leave the room and there was Strawbs in one of the beds (the others always come into the study with me).  How I managed to contain my squeals of delight I don't know, because I didn't want to frighten her.  Well, of course, once she knew I'd seen her, she started to shake, but only got out of the bed when I moved and left the room.  I was hoping she would stay there so I could get the camera, but she has gone off hiding somewhere. 

     

    So quite a day in terms of progress.  I am over the moon. 
     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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  10. 2 hours ago, Kazm said:

    You certainly sound like you’ve got a handful in little Strawberry. But she looks worth the trouble. I’m sure there is a great little dog underneath all her worries. 


    She is def worth all I can do for her and more :heart: :heart:.  It is heartbreaking though.  We are having crazy weather at the moment with hot days and turning really cold at night starting quite early in the evening.  Last night, she was shivering so hard, I simply had to put her through the catching process so I could get a coat on her. She didn’t stop shaking for ages while I held her, but she kept turning towards my face and giving me licks.  I’m quite sure it was an appeasement gesture which made me so angry at whatever or whoever had caused her to think like that.  
     

    This afternoon I gave them all some treats.  I was holding one out for Strawby and Shala swooped in and took it.  Well!!  No more backing away after that.  She wasn’t going to let that happen again :clap: :clap:.   So most days we see a little inching forward.  

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